Sissy Husband Training

If Your Husband Does Not Want Femdom Relationship.

Our step by step training here, will convert even the most vanilla of males to a femdom relationship if you follow this to the letter.

This may sound hard but I will tell you right now that it is a lot easier to switch your husband into a submissive than it is to train a woman to become a dominant.

This comprehensive guide will explore on how to start from scratch, and what targets to set at each step. By the end of this guide, your husband will be under your complete control, and will do everything to please you. This is the kind of relationship that most women desire.

Regardless of your man’s sex drive, whether little, large, vanilla, or kinky, the key to getting him to conform to a femdom relationship starts with one thing

Husband Training Step 1: Chastity.

If a man lacks sexual interest, it’s often easier for him to seek self-pleasure than to invest the time and energy needed to foster a fulfilling sexual relationship. A strong, healthy marriage or relationship can greatly benefit from male chastity. It helps your partner become more attentive and focused on your needs. The decision to keep him locked up is not up for debate—his orgasms are yours to give, not his default right. You have the full power to control his pleasure, and the sooner you assert that, the sooner his training can begin.

It’s often observed that men, in general, can be driven by strong sexual urges. Even in committed relationships, some may seek out other women, driven by a desire to spread their sexuality. Sexual encounters tend to be quick, with a focus on achieving orgasm, often leaving men feeling drained and disconnected afterward. This can lead to a shift in attention away from their partner or the emotional connection that may have initially sparked their desire. It’s no surprise, then, that women sometimes feel unsatisfied with their male partners.

For a man accustomed to unrestricted masturbation, chastity presents a significant challenge. However, it is a challenge that is well worth embracing, as it can transform his relationship with his partner. Many accounts of chastity regimens reveal that the man becomes more attentive to his partner’s needs, improving his ability to serve her both sexually and in countless other ways that bring her pleasure. The religious traditions that incorporate chastity and abstinence as central elements of their spiritual practice are certainly onto something meaningful.

Consider setting boundaries around his orgasms, ensuring they occur only after he has provided you with sufficient pleasure, whether that be sexual or otherwise. If his desire to masturbate becomes overwhelming, as can often be the case, gently encourage him to bring himself to the brink of orgasm, then stop and hold that control.

In a femdom dynamic, the male partner should be willing to offer sexual service without the expectation of his own release, which can be a challenging yet transformative experience, both mentally and physically. Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide how chastity fits into your relationship, but it’s essential to recognize that it can be a powerful tool in reinforcing his submission.

To understand his habits, approach him with openness and curiosity. Ask him how often he masturbates in a week, assuring him that it’s not about judgment but simply a question you’re curious about. Whether he answers truthfully or not doesn’t matter much at this point. Whether he says five times a week or none, your response will remain the same.

Here it is:

We recommend this one because it includes three different ring sizes and spacers, ensuring that no matter his size, he will be securely locked with no chance of cheating. You must have this ready before confronting him about his behavior. It needs to be put on immediately during the confrontation. Don’t accept any excuses. Be firm and determined to make it happen—this step is crucial.

Husband Training Step 2: More Chastity, More Teasing

Ok, so your first week of chastity on your husband is up. Now it’s time to evaluate.

If your husband masturbates more than 3 times per week, this first week will become very evident in his behavior change to you. Regardless of anything, being locked up for a week, will be an eye opener for the both of you. You realize now, that your sex life is directly tied to his orgasms.

It is time to reward him for his agreement. Give him whatever he asked for. Even if it is something that you have never done, like swallow, it is important to show him at this stage of the game, that his compliance will have huge payoffs.

Once you have given him what he wants, tell him that you really enjoyed the week together, and if he remains a good boy and stays in the chastity for another week, you have other WONDERFUL surprises for him.

At this point, before you lock him up, give him the best sex you have ever had in your life. Drain him completely with 1-3 orgasms in this day depending on his age and his refractory period. Then lock him up again.

Handling his ego is quite simple. Just follow these three rules:

Husband Training Step 3: Make him Swallow

First of all, it is actually a lot harder than it sounds. It is the entire power shift in the relationship with your husband. The whole point of forcing someone to swallow their own cum is making them do something degrading and humiliating that they wouldn’t normally do, but at the same time, it is very beneficial as your husband will not make any mess.

The most common approach is by command. Make him come on his or your hand or a shot glass or inside a condom. Then order him to lick it or swallow it clean. This is the first thing that comes to mind for most women, but is also the hardest to make someone follow through with.

This approach can work, but only if you are very strict. Speak sternly, imply urgency, and raise your voice. Since this is one of the hardest approaches, it can also take several tries. For example, tease your husband to the point of desperation, and then unlock him and make him come into a shot glass or a condom. Shot glass or condoms are essential, or too much of it will get stuck on the sides and be wasted. So after he came inside a condom, carefully take off that condom without dropping any cum, place it in his mouth, and tell him to suck it and swallow.

Swallowing his own cum is very important for his training. His training cannot move ahead if he does not complete this part. Just remind him that he cannot cum at all, unless he agrees to eat his own cum. Explain to him, how is that not only hot for you, as it turns you on, but also completely benign, as he is basically swallowing something from his own body. Help him pass this mental block. Tease him, seduce him, even blackmail him if necessary, but in the end you have to make him swallow his own cum.

If he still refuses, you have to go on the offense. Stop talking to him, threaten to break up your relationship, make him feel guilty, and remind him that he is responsible for all of it, because of a silly little thing that he is making into such a big deal. He should be stronger than that.

Again if he refuses hold his nose and pour it into his mouth. Let him breath but repeat the process to get him to swallow all of it.

This process takes a couple of tries before he will be able to swallow all of it without wasting a drop. However, if your husband refuses to do that, and you are unable to hold his nose or keep his mouth open, there is indeed a second approach that works for most women.

Husband Training Step 4: Breaking Balls

If you’ve been keeping your husband locked in chastity and teasing him for several weeks—while also training him to swallow his own cum whenever he’s allowed to orgasm—you’re now ready to introduce the next stages: Ball Torture and Edging. These aren’t rigidly defined steps but rather gradual techniques that deepen his submission.

While you can begin them alongside step three, it’s highly recommended to wait until he has consistently swallowed his cum without resistance. If he’s still hesitant or defiant, moving forward too quickly could be counterproductive. That said, using Ball Torture and Edging strategically can actually help break down his resistance and make him more compliant with the swallowing requirement.

Swallowing his own cum is a crucial milestone—more important than ball-play, ruined orgasms, or edging—because it represents a full surrender of pride and control. Once he accepts this, you’ll gain significant psychological power over him, which is essential before progressing to step four.

Edging, in particular, is a form of orgasm control similar to chastity, but with a more active and playful twist. Instead of complete denial, edging involves releasing him from chastity, stimulating him close to climax, then stopping just before he ejaculates. The goal is to bring him to the very edge repeatedly without letting him finish. With close observation, you’ll learn to recognize the subtle signs that he’s about to cum—timing your stops with precision.

This technique is incredibly effective for building sexual tension and amplifying his emotional dependency on you. The hormonal response triggered by prolonged arousal will make him feel more bonded, more devoted, and increasingly vulnerable to your feminine influence. In time, you’ll find his mind easier to shape and control.

Ensure he always informs you precisely how near he is. It may seem obvious, but insist he tells you when to ease off and when to halt, particularly at the start while you’re still learning to interpret his body language. Keep communicating with him, ask how it feels, and find out what works best. You’ll soon get the hang of it, and he’ll appreciate you even more for it.

Feel for his body and muscles tensing, him holding his breath, arching his back or even tensing, all are signs he’s getting very close. Learn to read and understand the signs and don’t worry if you go over, you’re learning. Just be sure it’s a libido-building ruined orgasm.

When you do want to enjoy his pent up explosions, make that part of the tease too. When you’re planning to make him climax and erupt, this is a great time to also practice your edging techniques. Use it as an opportunity to see just how crazy you can make him, where you’re not worrying about accidently taking him over the edge. You can also add a wonderfully sadistic element with like promising him to not ruining his orgasm If you can hold on for just five more minutes.

Routine is critical. Edge him every day. For best results: One short session (15 minutes) every other morning; one medium-length session (20-30 minutes) every evening before bed; and at least one long session (40+ minutes) every weekend. If this seems like a lot of time, consider how much time you spend alone doing things you wish he was interested in (like watching your favorite shows on Netflix).

This is one activity he will eagerly join. Edging is addictive to male neurochemistry, and it very specifically addicts him to you, as long as you do it regularly. The more you do it, the more deeply he bonds to you, and the more he will crave spending time with you throughout the day.

This feeds on itself, and before long, your nightly “quality time” together becomes perfectly natural for both of you. Even if you’re already in love, married, and devoted to each other, your connection can still go deeper – and the fire of wilder days can be rekindled.

No more going to bed alone! Also, any time spent having sex or pleasuring you can count toward his edge time. (at your discretion) Daily orgasms for you, his heat beside you as you drift to sleep, and an eager, attentive lover totally addicted to your touch – what’s not to love? No matter how busy or tired you are, you both have the time for this, I promise. Do it for a week, and you will start making time for it.

Edge him more than once. For most, this is obvious. But for some new to edging, it needs to be said. Don’t just edge him once and assume you’re done. Depending on his stamina (and how long it’s been since his last orgasm) it can take a while to build him up to his first edge of the night. It’s important to think of it that way: “first edge of the night.” Because once you’ve guided him to his edge – and 

stopped – he is still highly aroused, and edging him again becomes easy. All that build-up was time invested to get him to his most blissful state. Now “cash in” your investment and keep him there, by edging him over and over again. It should be easy.

A single, slow, tight pump is sometimes enough. Watch his reaction and enjoy the show! (Women report that this is usually their favorite part – guiding their loved one from edge to edge with subtle touches, watching him, and knowing the exquisite gift he trusts only her to give.)

Keep him on his toes. Whenever you touch him intimately, he should never be certain if you plan to edge him, deny him, or let him climax fully. Be unpredictable. Say you’ll stop, but then continue. Or promise you’ll deny him, only to let him finish completely. Congratulate him on the impending release, then “change your mind” and stop for the night. This strategy works if you sometimes tell the truth as well.

Once he realizes you’re unpredictable, his body will instinctively gear up for release every time, providing him with the excitement he desires while his mind races with uncertainty. You’re playing with his mind as well as his body—in the best possible way! Observe his reactions—from the way his toes curl to the light in his eyes. It’s intensely exciting.

A “ruined” orgasm occurs when you stop all stimulation just before he reaches climax. His ejaculation will be more of a slow release, lacking the full satisfaction of a complete orgasm. Despite the term “ruined,” he still experiences some pleasure, so feel free to do this regularly. He might squirm, plead, or attempt to complete the act himself, which presents an opportunity to experiment with playful restraints.

Simple items like a belt or necktie can be used to bind his wrists behind his back. The key difference between a ruined and a regular orgasm is that his sexual desire remains strong after a ruined orgasm. He stays aroused, attentive, and ready, as if he hadn’t climaxed at all, allowing you to continue the fun after a brief pause. It’s even possible to ruin him twice in one evening, though the second time might be more challenging to achieve.

Alternatively, a ball crusher can also be used that squeezes the testicles slowly by turning a nut or screw. Both are particularly enjoyable for the wearer as it can make an orgasm more intense, as testicles are prevented from moving. Of course he should be locked in chastity right back again. It is important that he spend as less time
as possible without the chastity locked. Hence it is highly recommended to invest in some electronic stimulation toy. Using electronic stimulation toys have an added benefit that it makes it easier for you to ruin your husband’s orgasm while he is still locked in chastity.

Another is, if you have electronic stimulation toys, use them to make him come, but after orgasm keep turning up the power until he obeys. There are a lot of options really, any sort of pain should do the trick. When using pain, I always suggest it be something erotic in nature to make thinking about it afterwards a more positive experience for your husband.

If you notice your husband hesitating or otherwise struggling with the command, I suggest telling his punishment if he doesn’t obey. Pick a punishment he won’t like, and up that punishment with each attempt. For example, by this time, your husband is locked in a cage, and is being teased constantly, so internally he cannot wait to just have a release.

Deny him orgasm for a week then tell them if he doesn’t follow through you will deny him orgasm for another week. If he still doesn’t budge then try again in a week, but next time threaten two weeks punishment. While I imagine this will eventually work with anyone, it might be hard to find the right punishment.

Don’t start out with the worst punishment you can imagine though, build up to larger and more serious punishments. Someone refusing to eat their own cum at the cost of no orgasms for a year, might actually be willing to do so at the threat of not coming for a month after suffering through two weeks of no orgasms. If it’s not working, try not to get frustrated. Some husbands just have a hard time with this. Instead, think of it as a game to see how much your husband will suffer through before giving in.

Your husband should know by now that you are in-charge, and he is locked in the chastity, and you are the key-owner, hence indirectly owning him. He should be continuously reminded that his manhood is now in your hands, and he is basically a sexual slave for your entertainment.

Husband Training Step 5: Discipline & Reward

Do not advance to this step until you have completed all previous steps.

Your man should be considerably better behaved by this point, and you should have stealthily found a way for him to be permanently chastised except when you want to tease him, play with him or occasionally give him release.

There is no set time for release, but I would recommend the beginning, no more than once per week. As you progress, the level that you can make him wait will significantly increase. You have to be careful though. There will be frustrating times for your man, and since you are taking him somewhere that you want him, and this was not his idea, you must be more flexible in his training than if all this was his idea.

So, the next step you need to do is to incorporate real punishment into your lifestyle. The affirmations are nice and an introductory way for him to get used to you spanking him, but now I am talking about real discipline.

Your husband needs to be disciplined in order to be corrected so that he becomes a better husband to you. A normal punishment is a judgment or a sentence for the violation of the law that the you have laid down. If your husband knowingly has violated one of your commands, he should be punished to pay her retribution for his unlawful behavior. An example would be, say the you forbid your husband to masturbate. If he violates your known rules, he then would be punished to learn his lesson and to pay you retribution for his infraction.

But here the dynamics are entirely different. Contrary, your husband has to be regularly disciplined,whether he has violated any rules or not. He is discipline because you are training him. Any pain causing activity like a whipping or a spanking can be either a discipline or a punishment. But the purpose and the severity will vary depending if it is for training or for rebuke. A punishment would be more severe than a discipline.

If you are able to do it right away, then do it. If not, then you must still warn him that when you have a moment that he will be disciplined for his disobedience. He will likely think this is a game at this point, and will be looking forward to the spanking. When the time comes, this is how you handle it.

Your tone is different. Your attitude is different. You put him over the knee and you use a belt, slipper, or anything with a hard surface, or if you must your hand. You spank him for as long as it takes, and it is important that when you are spanking him you are talking to him about the behavior you are trying to correct. If he starts to resist or tries to get away, you must let him know that if he refuses his punishment, that the chastity will stay on for an extra week.

If he still does not comply, then let him be disobedient, but live up to your commitment. No playing with him in any sexual way for another week. If he agrees to the spanking later, you still make him wait a week from the day he turned the spanking down. You can subtract one day for him comingaround to show that good behavior does have it rewards.

Now this is the most important part.

Aftercare.

After you are done, you must hold him, caress him, and love him. Tell him that you think that it is incredibly hot how he submitted to you, and that you think is the ultimate man. It is important for you to build his ego to support his compliance at this point. If you do this right, you have him right now. You now can bend and mold him into anything you want.

You have broken him. But to be broken that man needs to know that you have not lost respect, but have actually gained respect. That you love him more. That he means more to you now that he ever has.

Do not accept no as an answer here. Do whatever it takes to get him to agree. Once he agrees, you need to commence your authority right away.

First thing you want to remember – Men are visual creatures. Face sitting is about using your feminine parts to seduce and control him. It’s a good idea to stand over him and let him get an eyeful of your crotch and butt cheeks before you sit. You might like to put your hands on your hips or touch yourself as you tell him what you are going to do to his face before you sit, for example; it builds anticipation. It helps to get him excited about the prospect of having his vision obscured if you give him some visual teasing beforehand. You can’t just plop down on a face as if it’s an actual seat, no matter what he says.

The human face was not designed to withstand the pressure of an entire torso’s weight. You have to counter balance with your legs and arms in order to exert the right amount of weight that doesn’t cause damage.

What you can do is to sit cowgirl or reverse cowgirl on his head. Position yourself so your knees are not touching him. Not place full weight, but enough of it to distribute your weight throughout your legs. Only wear heels if you are physically fit and have powerful legs that you can hold yourself upright on; you’ll injure your ankles and getting a comfortable position will be hard.

Seat yourself on his face so that the softest parts of you are in contact with the hardest parts of his face. So for example, your ass crack and cheeks should center on the nose and upper jaw. 

Be realistic. He may want you to squish his face but good. You have to remember however that you are the dominant and you set the tone for what is safe to do. Squish his face for him if you like, but don’t do it with reckless abandon.

Husband Training Step 6: You get a penis, he gets a hole.

If you have completed all the prior steps, ONLY then resume reading here.

By now you should be experiencing a newly formed relationship where your man is the most attentive and obedient man he has been since the beginning of your relationship.

In this next level of training we are going to intensify, and lay down some deep subliminal programming to help transform him into your knight that will follow your orders happily, obediently, faithfully, and love doing it for you.

This is where the relationship truly will start to blossom beyond anything you could ever imagine.

Make sure that you are doing your training with him every day. As another rule, during this period, it would be very helpful to your cause to have your man naked as much as possible in the home while you remain clothed. If you have kids, establish a date night once per week, where your kids are taken to a babysitter, and establish a no clothes rule in the house. Or put the kids to bed if they are young enough, and get your man naked.

Teach him things like bringing you a drink. Preparing snacks for TV shows, etc. You should also at this time, tell him that the remote is now yours to decide what the two of you will watch. If you like sports, or programs he likes, then by all means, but you are in charge of the remote now.

This first time he will feel very awkward after you did that, so just tell him to lie there while you clean up. Clean him up nicely, and take all responsibility of cleanup this time. Later on down the road, you will of course make this his responsibility, but for now, you need to lead by taking charge of the whole situation, cleanup and aftercare.

When it is all over, lie with him and have a deep discussion about what just happened and let him know that the exchange in power was the most erotic thing you have ever felt, and you feel more in love with him than ever.

From his point, he will have experienced the most intense leg shaking orgasm he has ever felt, and will pretty much be putty in your hands.

In a Femdom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the strap-on training. By expert opinions, several times a week. Repeat this practice now several times over the next 4 weeks.

From the female’s perspective, pegging can be enjoyable for the reasons of control. Being on the giving side of sexual intercourse can be empowering and enjoyable for many women who wish to know what it feels like to ‘give’ sex. Additionally, many advanced strap-on that are used for pegging will have some form of stimulation platform for the female’s vagina, with the constant motion being mutually pleasurable for both parties involved.

Lastly, Remember, In a Femdom relationship, getting the strap-on is not an option, It is a necessity. No Femdom relationship can work without the role reversal of sexual activity.

He’ll scream like a little bitch the first few times. All of that’s very normal. But just keep at it. Your goal is to make it a very normal part of his experience. After a while some pretty wonderful things will start to happen. 

His selfish, argumentative masculine edge will dissipate. He will become much more cooperative and attentive to your needs. His submissive side will come out and blossom. He will become much less concerned with his orgasms, and more focused on yours. His erogenous zone will slowly start to shift from the head of his penis to the opening to his asshole and his prostate gland. It is therefore very important to make sure your partner receives a good fuck session one a week. When not fucking his ass with a strap-on, a butt plug should be inserted in his asshole, to keep it stretched at all time. This is for his benefit as it will reduce the pain for the next time you start to peg him with a dildo or a strap-on. 

Pegging is usually best done in the doggy style position for maximum mutual pleasure and to minimize the potential risk of injury or discomfort. However, other positions should be tried afterwards, once a rhythm has been achieved.

Also be sure to make him orally service you and keep on your training with him during this period of time. This is a good time to institute an orgasm rule. Something like he does not get to cum, until you have come 3 times. This will teach him the importance of pleasing you first, and him secondly.

Make weekly goals for him to fit a bigger size dildo in his ass than before, and Take your time in order to stimulate his prostate when you are fucking him, it will be very pleasant for him, even if also humiliating, and he will not recognize it easily. While you increase the size of your dildo, his stimulation will increase as well. He is enjoying a strange new pleasure, humiliating, but for sure milking will help. 

Your authority will grow, while he gets used to have something inside his ass: make him use a butt-plug, of a good size, when you are not fucking him.

You can also enjoy making him feel always full. During a meal, surprise him ordering him to go to the bathroom to introduce himself a butt-plug you have prepared for him.

He will soon understand that he does not control anything not even his penis he will not be able to
have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he can’t have what he
wants, when he wants it, without your approval.

Finally, your man’s brain will end by associating the anal penetration with your pleasure and orgasms, he will want his strap-on treatment, and will beg for it. He will be your whore, always in disposal to please you. He will need to be fucked by you, and he will do anything to get it.

After three or four months of chastity treatment, pegging, discipline and humiliation… Being selfconfident, firm, strict… he will stop resisting and fighting. He will bend over for you, will hug and hold you after you have fucked him with love, and will desperately need to lick your cunt to give you pleasure and thank you for what you do for him.

Husband Training Step 7: Adjusting to his role

A word of caution. If you want to go further than where you are at this point, be careful. Some actions cannot be undone, and if you are thinking of doing anything that you will lose complete respect for your man, I would caution you. It is a gift he has given you in his submission. Especially since in your case, you were training him to do something he wasn’t really up for in the beginning.

Fortunately, many of these sissy femdom stories you read on the internet are not far from reality, and most woman still crave their men to be very feminine and obedient. The things you have done up to this point only intensified your feelings towards each other, and that was the goal in the first place.

However, if you keep the next steps to fantasy, and stay monogamous in your relationship, or bring in other people and both people are willing and excited about it, then by all means.

If you still want to participate in doing chores and helping out, then you should. However, if you are getting turned on by the control, then you should not. Your man wants you turned on. It makes him feel good, and it makes it easier for him to take on all the chores.

It makes him feel wanted, loved, and appreciated when you are horny for him. If making him your house bitch makes you horny, then have him do all the chores. When he is doing a big clean, and he is on his hands and knees cleaning the hard floors, it’s always a good idea to wear your strap on fully clothed and walk around the house. This will make him go crazy.

Then take him when you want to, as often as you want too. He is your bitch now. Make it so. All of this is completely private, However, slowly, this needs to be taken out from privacy and introduced to friends (yours and his) and eventually out in the public.

By the end of this training, you will be able to invite people to your home, and your husband will be doing household chores and serving the guests, completely naked, locked in a chastity, while wearing a butt plug. He will absolutely feel humiliated and embarrassed during the first few times, but with proper training, he will adapt into his new role, and will find it totally normal.

Similarly, your friends and other guests will be shocked to see a completely naked man doing house chores too, especially the ones who have already seen him as your husband before. Here you can elaborate that you are taking over the decision making in your relationship and are training him for a new lifestyle where he will do whatever you say.

Some guys will not accept this and will cause havoc, hence it is very important to not let his past friends see him like that, at least not initially. You need to make him comfortable, and make him think that it’s the norm, and it is much more feasible if you only invite women for the time being. Women will understand what you are trying to do, and will either admire or become jealous of your lifestyle.

At this point you can treat him anyway you want, and he will still be loyal to you, and will do
anything you say. You can also make your friends jealous by making him to take orders from them
and do whatever they say. You can also allow your friends to humiliate your husband, by showing
the effectiveness of the training you have put him through and now that you have such an obedient
husband in the end, who does all house chores while placing women on a pedestal.

Discipline.

Teach him now that if he displeases you with his behavior, you will spank him as hard, and as long as you feel it takes to correct the behavior. This is not when he is pleading you to stop. It is when his ass is beaten to a pulp, and if you can get him to cry, then it is there.

Some men will not cry from physical pain, but you will certainly know when he has learned his lesson. Then provide the aftercare that is needed with a severe beating. If you have done this right, sitting down should hurt for a couple of days. Save these types of spankings for when he has really done something to piss you off.

Sex.

Basically it is the process of draining the cum via prostate stimulation from anal penetration. It is important that your husband cums without touching his penis, that should be locked in chastity.

The man does not experience an orgasm, but you keep him healthy and drained from time to time. This will keep in submissive. Also, you should practice the art of ruined orgasms.

You can also choose an electric dildo, which sends periodical electrical shocks/ This e-dildo can be inserted deep in his anus, and will keep your husband totally disciplined.

The main point is that you will find the perfect blend of you getting sexual pleasure vs his sexual pleasure, and in any femdom relationship it is clear that yours is more important, frequent, and your husbands main priority besides his chores.

Here are some goals for you to accomplish that will make him truly your house bitch sex slave.

1. When he cums, make him eat it, no matter where it is. If it is inside you, he cleans you up. If it is on the floor, you make him lick it up. The first time you do this, it is best he is tied up, and you feed it to him by scooping it off his body, and putting it in his mouth. Re-inforce that you are very happy when he does it, and use triggers that you know that make him very happy after he has done this. Do every time he does this until he automatically goes to clean it up without you asking.
2. Eventually teach him how to cum when you are spanking him. Keep on edging him until he is close while you spank him. You do this long enough, he will eventually associate the pain with pleasure, and you will be able to spank the cum out of him.
3. Teach him to cum with anal stimulation only. This may mean a long time in chastity, and daily fucking in the ass, but eventually if he does not have release, and you are fucking his ass daily, he will cum when you fuck his ass. Use a feel doe, so that you can cum every time you fuck him, and this can become your new sex way. Eventually he will crave to be fucked in the ass as much as any sex activity. You may like it more, especially if you do not cum from traditional vaginal intercourse.
4. Get him a hollow strap on to go over his cock to make him be able to fuck you as long as you want without him getting any pleasure. This way you to get to have a cock of any size you wish, as often as you wish.

You have trained your husband. Congratulations.

There is one more OPTIONAL step, but a word of caution…. DO NOT DO THIS UNLESS YOU ARE ABSOLUTE SURE. This step is IRREVERSIBLE.

Just understand this next step consists of some mental conditioning and some actual blackmail. This step will completely break your husband, and you will be able to build him into a new person that will always be loyal and loving to you, even if you are not.

This STEP is not mandatory, but highly recommended.

Husband Training Last Step – Sissification

Warning: Proceed only if you want to. This is optional and should only be done if you understand fully the implications of these actions.

If you have completed all the prior steps, then resume reading here. Proceed with this step with caution. Beware: If you lose respect for your man at this point, turn away from this page, do not attempt this. If you are a mature enough woman to get turned on by your control in turning your man into a sissy maid, then continue on. If you man has a hard limit and will not do this, I would suggest backing off, and working on this for several months by introducing panties first, then stockings, etc., etc.

EXTRA CAUTION: There are women that will ABUSE this power, and there are women that will use this power. Abuse of this power could end your relationship if not done properly. Using this power could intensify it beyond belief. It is a delicate balance, and we encourage you not to do anything on this page without truly understanding this and by respecting hard limits of yourself and your husband. Limits are meant to be pushed, but some lines you definitely do not want to cross. Listen to your husband on what these limits are, and take him to the edge of them, without crossing.

Sissification takes its time. Don’t expect to have a sissy husband the next week after reading this step. It takes several months to transform your husband into a good sissy. However, you can enjoy and give your husband a one off sissy experience before you decide to permanently transform your husband into an obedient sissy.

Here is how.

If you have kids, plan a day to get them gone from early morning to the next morning on a weekend day. Clear your calendar, and understand to experience this fully, it will be a 24 hour experience that you will never forget.

When you are alone, tell him that for the next 24 hours, you want him to be your lesbian girlfriend. (this will help him accept it more, by you using lesbian instead of him being gay, It puts the awkwardness on you, and makes it more acceptable for him to play along) If he resists, thinking you have some plans of bringing in some guys to stuff his throat with cock, let him know that this is not true. (unless you have pre-talked about this and is something you both want).

We won’t go there on this site, because this is something we definitely don’t want. Assure him, this is just role play and that it will be fun. That is what it is, and yes it will be fun, for both of you. If your man’s body is not shaved, then this is the time to do it.

Shave his legs, bum, armpits, chest, and if you want leave the hair on his arms do it, so he can at least look normal at work. You don’t want to ruin your lives over this, you simply want to take the last measure of ego from your man. Once you completely remove his ego, the rest of your relationship and life will be bliss. It is man’s ego that keeps relationships from being all that it can be.

Once your man is shaved, apply a nice feminine body lotion to his body to make him smell like a girl. Then have him sit next to you naked, while you apply his makeup. Apply lots of foundation to give him a very girly smooth skin complexion, and then the rest. Eye shadow, lipstick, mascara. Make him the prettiest girl as you can. The humility of this will be the biggest turn on for him, and the control will be something you would have never imagined being such a turn on.

Now apply nail polish and toenail polish. Pink is a nice touch. Then put on the wig.

Bend him over multiple times throughout the day, lift his skirt/dress up, and slide his panties to his knees and make him your sissy maid slut. Truly turn the tables on him for what men have been doing to women for years. Today is the day you take completely control. Today is the day you push him past limits that you have not done yet. Today is the day you will let him cum, but he will eat it, no matter where it falls. IN fact, today you should make him cum many, many times, and make him eat it every time.

It will be very hard for him to do, especially 2-3 orgasms into it, as all desire to be wearing womens clothing and participating will go away after the first orgasm. However, you will be taking pictures before he loses this desire, and you will be in COMPLETELY REAL control. Not the pretend stuff you were doing before, but the real stuff.

That is why I said proceed with caution. That is why you need to be emotionally mature enough to handle this power, and not to ruin your partners life over it, but use it against him to control him for the benefit of both of you .

Make sure you get a picture of all the nastiest things you do that day. Of him bent over with his dress up while you are fucking him. Him licking his cum off the floor. Whatever there is, you get proof of it. (Be very careful of this not to fall into the wrong hands. Immediately put this on a thumbstick and lock it away after this day is over. Or use a brand new micro sd card, that you can take out and keep somewhere.

Training.

The process of sissification is like a psychological battle that you have to -and you will- win as long as you take it easy and you don’t force anything. If you have successfully completed your previous steps, then this will be relatively easier. If everything flows everything will be fine and you’ll end up having an obedient sissy boyfriend.

Remember that it’s essential to keep calm and not to raise suspicions on what your end goals are.

To sissify your husband, the first thing to do is to change his physical appearance.

When it’s a normal thing for him to shave and not going to the hairdresser, it’s time to begin with the next phase.

Once she’s fully accustomed to this form of submission and pleasure, move her into permanent chastity—no more unlocking. But continue using strap-ons and dildos to keep her trained. She’ll learn to cum while still locked, surrendered completely to her new role.

However, in this scenario you need a shot glass or a cup under him to collect his cum/pre-cum, or you bend him over with his cock over his mouth and then make him swallow it (as discussed in earlier chapter).

Now this is the only kind of sex you two will ever have. He will never penetrate you, and will serve his life for your pleasure and amusement. He will be addicted to drinking his own cum, and will beg you to penetrate him with your dildo/strap-on to make him orgasm from anal alone, and will swallow all of it every time.

Since the dynamics of the relationship has completely changed, and he is now a sissy husband. It is time to introduce other people. Now You both can have male friends and female friends. A good place to start would be to introduce your sissy husband to your female friends. For once, women are a lot more acceptable and understanding of sissy men, and even though some might not want a sissy husband of their own, they surely will admire you for training one.

It is indeed a great milestone, and after introducing your training sissy husband, most women will be envious of you. There is a lot of trades in sissy men that women like. A sissy husband is a lot more feminine, and understanding of the female feelings. His machoism and ego has been demolished, and he places the desires of women before his own.

His masculine sex drive is gone, and replaced by sissy urges, which are dependent on your mood and wishes. He rubs your feet, massage your back, even eats your pussy without wanting anything in return. He will cook for you, clean the house, do all the household chores for you.

Even he will share the same fashion as you, and will be a perfect partner to do shopping for skirts, shoes/heels, panties. He will also do your make up and prepare you for parties and dates. He will never question your orders and will accept whatever punishment you give him. You will have full authority over his body, and he will face any and all humiliation you throw at him.

A great opportunity would be to throw a party for your girlfriends, and let your sissy do all the work. Make him prepare and serve food, and entertain all the guests. You can even let your friends have fun with your sissy husband, and order him to follow their orders for the night. He will take all the abuse and humiliation from your guests. He will be a perfect amusement for your friends at the party.

This might give you many advantages for later, if you willing to start some training school, and train other men to become sissies. But for now, it would be a great confidence booster and will help you stay motivated to continue training your husband.

You all can together start your day at your home where your husband will prepare breakfast for everyone, then you can all go shopping outside, while your sissy husband will stay at home and clean the house, and perform other household chores. Before you return he would have an evening meal prepared, and will serve you obediently. Or you can stay home all day, just sit and relax, and he will be there to serve you. Ge willgive you and your friends great massages and foot rubs.

Your friends obviously will have a lot of questions on how you were able to train your husband into such an obedient sissy. At this point, you should share your husbands training with your friends. You should show your friends how you penetrate your sissy husband, and how the power dynamics changed completely between you two. You may even let your friends penetrate your husband for a change.

Why is it necessary? There might be an inclination to not share your sissy with your friends, as clearly you have put in the effort and trained him, so why would they get to use him. But remember, a good sissy needs to be shared, and it’s not only good for you, but good for your friends, and for the sissy. After serving several people, he will become more and more obedient, and will value you more. This will also help your friends to get inspired to train their own husbands/boyfriends into a sissy of their own. 

When your friends start to train their own sissy, they will definitely need your help. Since the training takes a lot of time and practice, some of your friends might have a lot of questions and answers, and might need hands on experience of such thing. It would be recommended that you let your friends try different things out on your sissy, and test certain techniques themselves, before they test them on their untrained sissy. This will help their training go a lot smoother, and faster.

Sissy husbands even though totally dedicated to their wives, like to be socially active. However, having them social interaction with anyone is not suitable for them because of their training. They can be misguided by other people, or taken advantage of by someone you do not allow. Hence it is better to have control over who your sissy husband meets and hangout with. A great solution to this would be having sissies socialize with other sissies would be a great improvement, and will result in more satisfied and content sissy husband. 

This will help open new experience for you and your sissy. You can now compare notes with your girlfriends over each other’s sissies and how to best train them. You can You can also exchange sissies with each other for short time or a weekend. You can also take photos of your sissies in training and share them over to each other or in the group over social media. Sharing your experience would increase your insight, but will have an added advantage in humiliating your sissy husband. 

It is a lot easier to do with your girlfriend than with your male friends, which is next.

Now that you have conquered the female partnership in sissy training, next step is harder. Now if you have male friends or companions, this gets a little tricky. First Now you are entering the cuckolding territory, which is more of a psychological training than it is physical. Your sissy husband, even though trained to your wishes, would still have a hard time accepting other men in between your relationship with him. This is incredible hard thing to overcome, may be the hardest we have discussed so far.

However, the good thing is that, at his point of the training, if you followed regularly and to the letter, you have broken your husband, and he will conform easily to his new role as a cuckolded sissy. You can go out on dates with other men, he will prepare you before that, taking out your dress, and putting make up on you will be his obvious duties. He will even wait for you to tell him all the juicy details of your sexual experience.

At this point, you can either stop proceeding, and be content with such dynamics, with you having sex with other guys, and your sissy husband waiting desperately at home for you to come back and fill his holes, or you could go ahead and make your sissy husband share the experience. However, there is a drawback. Now this is the hardest thing to overcome, to comply your sissy husband to be with other men. Luckily the reason is obvious.

Because to your sissy husband, being used by a female friend is still the same routine as before, when you trained him. However, to be used by a male, that will light some sparks in your sissy husband’s mind. He will see it as being gay.

Now it is perfectly normal for men to have these thoughts, and blindly agree to the conformity of letting another man touch them is borderline gay, but you have to remember, this is what you exactly trained him for. As a sissy, he is not allowed to have a say in what he does. He cannot agree or disagree with any order you gave him, instead he has to just follow him, and a well-trained sissy will definitely do that.

Now why would you want your sissy husband to be with other men? 

Now how to approach it. First if you are already dating other men, and bringing them home, it would be no different. However, if you are not, you have to give your sissy a little bit of relaxation before announcing that. He needs to feel that if you bring home a lover, he will be treated better than before. Now you don’t necessarily have to treat him any different, but such small things can make a huge difference.

He will definitely be more accepting if you told him in advanced, and tell him that you will make him part of your love making. He might get confused, or discouraged, or excited on idea of possible threesome. You do not have to explain that, instead just get his agreement to go through with it. In reality, you don’t need agreement, but it will make your sissy husband go through with it much easier.

Before you put your plan into action, your sissy husband might need some visual therapy. As explained earlier, since men are visual creatures, they get influenced by visual imagery much more than any other source of information. Best way would be to train him by forcing him to watch cuckold or gay porn. He will probably be disgusted by it, and refuse to watch it, but you have to force him to watch it, till to the point he starts to get pleasure. Also during that, unlock him so he could masturbate to gay porn.

This is a way of reconditioning his brain, by associating his sexual release of pleasure to gay porn. This way, he will subconsciously find gay porn arousing and sexually pleasing. Continue that for several weeks, before going practical. Getting a lover is something you do as much for yourself as you do it for your partner.

As a woman you deserve hot steamy sex every once in a while and you deserve the freedom cuckolding your sissy husband (whose penis might have shrink a lot because of being locked up most of the time) gives you. It serves as an important outlet and opportunity for you to further explore your sexual fantasies (as well as fulfill those of your partner) and desires, and to quench and fulfill sexual needs that your partner cannot possibly hope to satisfy.

That being said, if you don’t have one yet, you better start searching. After a few weeks or months training your sissy with gay porn, she’ll do anything for you. If you want to, you’ll be able to make her participate into a trio with you and your lover. Before it, teach her the following: “You’ll always do whatever your masters say”.

Make her repeat it: “I’ll do whatever my masters say”. Make sure that your sissy swallow and pleases your lover or lovers in any way. Now you can always start with a blowjob. A blowjob is the best way to get your sissy husband started with your lover, without thinking about any other thing. It is also the first mental hurdle that your sissy husband might have in his mind. Once get over this hurdle, it’s all smooth sailing. These can be described into 3 small steps.

If you have able to achieve to step 3, and have made your sissy husband suck cock all by himself, now you are just one step away from total victory. Now he is ready to get his ass fucked by your lover.

The first time is massively important, and you have to be not only present, but make your present known by staying involved. You should be the one constantly touching your sissy husband. Spreading his ass cheeks, allowing your lovers cock to penetrate him, and giving him a pep talk to enjoy it and take it. After your sissy husband gets his ass fucked, you can join in on the fun by wearing a strap-on.

if you have a friend whom you have said the truth about your former boyfriend/sissy invite her so she punishes your sissy for you. it will be even more humiliating. Or lend your sissy to them for a day or two.

If any male guests arrive at your house, make your sissy service them, suck their dicks and swallow their load.

Invite your male friends to come home for ‘all you can do sissy buffet’

Invite your local guys, and make them a queue, and have your sissy suck all of them off. Also Rent out your sissy’s holes, and charge by the hours.

When your sissy behave good, always compliment her. It will reinforce her implication in the process. You can pet her head/cudle her and use such expression as :

• “Good girl !”
• “I’m proud of you”
• “Very nice !”
• “Good job !”
• “You’re the best !”
• “You’re so cute !
  

If you are very satisfied by your sissy you can buy her small gifts as lingerie, wigs, make up…

Every day, make her say that she is a sissy and that she love it.

Never forget to say your sissy how beautiful she is,how proud you are of her and how much you love her!

If you have followed this guide, and have correctly implemented each step, by now you have a loving
sissy husband that you can control in any way you want. Your previous husband is no more, he is
now a broken sissy, ready for your commands. He is used to getting humiliated, disciplined and
punished by you, used as a sissy by you and anyone you allow to use, and yet still in the end he will
love and cherish you, and always be by your side.

Now for the rest of your life, if your sissy husband ever gets out of line, by some coincidence breaks
his training, or think of leaving this lifestyle that you have forced him into. Remember, for this
moment, we have taken pictures at different steps of the training. Remind him that these pictures
exist, and you can always distribute those pictures to the people, your sissy husband definitely do not
want to share with. Now you have true power over him. Keep these pictures safe and keep up with
the regular discipline you have been doing, and make him do sissy chores, and drill his asshole, and
make him swallow his own cum on the daily basis.

What happens next is up to you ! 🙂

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